RAYMOND & LENNIE MAE HENLEY
FAMILY OF HUMBOLDT, TENNESSEE
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Raymond Henley was born on February 7, 1910, in rural Fayette County, Tennessee.
He was a
triplet and with his two brothers, Hammond and Leemond, created quite a stir in
the
country setting of the early twentieth century. Their father, James Allison
Henley, and
mother, Alean Hammons Henley, lived for some time in the area near the Fayette
and
Hardeman County line and had already had eleven children by the time the
triplets were
born. Besides the total of fourteen children after the big birth, they were also
raising
Alean's nephew and niece, which brought the total to a whopping SIXTEEN children
in the
Henley house. The unthinkable happened on March 22, 1910. When the triplet boys
were just
six weeks old, their mother Alean who, in all likelihood was suffering from
phlebitis, had
a massive heart attack and died unexpectedly. In her forties and going through
such tough
times as giving birth to triplets had taken its toll and her body could no
longer handle
the stress. Shocked, the family buried her at the Enon Cemetery in Hardeman
County near
that of her twin sister, Rosa Shearin. James Allison Henley then attempted, with
the help
of his older daughters, to raise the triplet boys.
Sometime in probably the late 1910s, James Allison Henley moved north and
settled in the
area near Humboldt, Tennessee. Another tragedy struck when Leemond, one of the
triplet
boys who had amazingly survived such dyer circumstances, died of what was called
"spotted
fever." His gravesite is unknown, but has been rumored to be near the "Windy
City"
community south of Humboldt.
James never remarried, but his two other triplet boys did marry local girls.
Hammond
married in Gibson County 1926 to Mary Ella "Sonny" Holmes. Her parents were
originally
from Bradford, and her grandparents had given the land for the present-day
Bradford
Cemetery. Hammond and Sonny had four children and moved up north to Cleveland,
Ohio,
seeking factory work which was rare in rural, agricultural West Tennessee at the
time.
Raymond married Lennie Mae Morris, the daughter of William Allen Morris and
Nealy Ellis
Smith. Lennie Mae had been born in the Pinson area of Madison County and was
reared near
Fruitvale in Crockett County. Her father died when she was young and was buried
in an
unknown grave in Crockett County. (Note: I have sent off for his death
certificate and,
upon receiving it, saw that the place of burial was listed as "Vinse White." If
anyone
knows who or what this was, please let me know.) Raymond and Lennie Mae were
married in
Gibson County in 1933 and made the home in Humboldt.
Raymond, however, suffered from severe asthma, which would not permit him to
work in the
cotton-laden air of the Humboldt Gin. Lennie Mae worked tirelessly to provide
for the
children, but eventually, they moved to Cleveland, Ohio, following Hammond, and
attempting
to find work in the industrialized north. After a two-year stint in Cleveland,
they
returned to Humboldt. Then, went back to Cleveland where Raymond got a job
working as a
"tool-and-die" man in a plant. They made their home in Cleveland until about
1952 when
they returned to Humboldt. A shoe factory had opened which would let them return
home and
permit Raymond to work in his hometown of choice.
Raymond was very active in baseball and helped organize youth baseball leagues
in
Humboldt. He also was converted to Christianity in Humboldt and united with
Emmanuel
Baptist Church. Raymond and Lennie Mae also had children. Namely, they were Sara
Frances,
James Raymond (known as Bub or Bubba), Betty Faye, Robert Ellis (known as Bob),
Douglas
McArthur (known as Doug), and Gerald Thomas (known as Jeep), all of which were
born in
Humboldt with the exception of Doug, who was "yankee" of birth, born in Ohio.
Sadly,
Raymond's asthma, coupled with other health problems and a weakening heart, put
him in the
hospital in 1958. He died on November 7 at the age of only 48. His funeral
services were
held at Emmanuel Church were he worshiped and he was interred at the Rose Hill
Cemetery in
southern Humboldt near the grave of his mother-in-law, Nealy, who had died about
three
years before.
Raymond had seen the his first grandchild, Paula Christine McCartney, Sara's
daughter, who
was born September 13, 1958. His second daughter, Betty, was pregnant at the
time of his
death and about a month later gave birth to a son, Michael Raymond Hayes. After
Raymond's
death, Humboldt decided that in order to honor this man who had given so much
time to his
community, they would name a baseball field after him. Today, Raymond Henley
Field is
still in Humboldt today.
Raymonds young widow, Lennie Mae, continued to live in Humboldt for the
remainder of her
life. Suffering from severe lung problems, she was on oxygen for the later years
of her
life. She also suffered from severe diabetes, which worsened her circulation.
She
continued caring for her family for many more years.
The youngest son of Raymond and Lennie Mae, "Jeep" as he was affectionately
known, was
killed in a car accident on March 31, 1985. He was laid to rest in Rose Hill
Cemetery in
Humboldt days later, leaving his wife, Linda, a daughter, Allison Rae, and a
step-son,
Kevin Sipes. Lennie Mae Henley died of complications resulting from her multiple
health
maladies in Humboldt on December 6, 1991. She was buried next to Raymond and a
deceased
grandson, Michael Hayes, in Rose Hill Cemetery. Today, Sara lives near Skullbone
in the
northeastern part of Gibson County. She is married to Dwain McCartney and they
have three
adult children, Chris, Bill, and Scotty.
"Bub," who married the former Joyce Phelps, lives between Humboldt and Gibson,
Tennessee.
They are parents of Russell and Kenny.
Betty died on March 2, 2005, at Jackson-Madison County General Hospital in
Jackson,
Tennessee, after having battled lung disease for years. She left behind her two
surviving
children, Johnny and Missy, who still live in Gibson County. She was preceded in
death by
her son, Michael Raymond Hayes. Betty is buried in Rose Hill Cemetery.
Bob resides in Henry County, Tennessee, near the Tennessee River, where he
retired to do
his most beloved hobby…fishing. His wife, Peggy, died of pneumonia in 1990 and
he
remarried to his current wife, Lillie, a few years later. They currently operate
a
restaurant in the Big Sandy-Springville area known as "Lillie Dee's." Bob's
daughter,
Janie, lives in Texas and his son, Bobby Lee, was killed in a car accident in
1993. He is
buried at Rose Hill Cemetery next to his mother, Peggy.
Doug died on September 23, 2007, at home in Humboldt, Tennessee. He left behind
his wife,
Sandy Rutherford Henley, as well as four children: Diana, Mark, D. J., and Joey.
Doug
was a loyal member of Avondale Baptist Church in Humboldt. Three of his children
reside
in Gibson County and one resides in Ohio.
"Jeep," as aforementioned, passed on in 1985. His wife, Linda, has relocated to
Vero
Beach, Florida, but his daughter, Allison, remains in West Tennessee, living in
the
Jackson area.